Gwendoline and I have had a rough day! It's been tough on her physically, and tough on my momma heart. It all started yesterday morning, when I picked her up from her crib in the morning and noticed three gigantic, red bite marks on her left arm. There is also a smaller bite on one of her cheeks. Assuming that there was a nasty, evil mosquito in her room overnight and that she had scratched at the bites quite a bit, I watched them throughout the day and night (literally, with a flashlight during the night). This morning there was no improvement; if anything, they looked even more swollen and red. So I took her straight to the dermatologist this morning.
At the dermatologist's office, just as the doctor was diagnosing her with SPIDER BITES, Gwendoline unexpectedly threw up all over herself, me, and the exam room. So of course then we wondered, is this related to the spider bites or is it completely unrelated? Of course there's no way to know other than to "keep an eye on her." I really hate that non-answer. I am a concrete, practical, get-things-done person and "keeping an eye" on something that may or may not be serious just doesn't really work for me. But ok. So we left, covered in vomit and apologies, with a prescription for a steroid ointment for the bites. Gwendoline's room has since been torn apart, cleaned, washed, and sprayed for spiders. Twice.
But wait, there's more! About two hours after getting home from the dermatologist, Gwendoline took a tumble off of her ladybug ride-on toy and hit the back of her head on the tile. HARD. A huge lump appeared immediately and Gwendoline screamed and cried for several minutes. But then she calmed way down and started acting very lethargic, sleepy, and dazed- not at all characteristic of my Gwendoline. I called my super nurse cousin-in-law, who recommended I call the pediatrician, who recommended I take her to the ER if she didn't improve or worsened in the next half hour. We made it about 20 minutes before Gwendoline started gagging and dry heaving while still super lethargic and dazed, so to the ER we went. At the ER, we had the same conundrum as at the dermatologist office: Is the vomiting related to a head injury, or just very coincidental given that she vomited this morning and could have a bit of a stomach bug. The doctor recommended waiting it out and keeping an eye on her, of course (grrrrr). But her demeanor and presentation didn't improve over about an hour, and she even took a nap in my lap in the ER (very un-Gwendoline), so we decided to do a CT scan to be safe.
Jeph left work and met us at the ER in time to take Gwendoline back for her CT scan. Thank God he was able to be there or a stranger would have had to take her since I'm not allowed in the room with the radiation equipment due to being pregnant. The scan was completed quickly and the results revealed that everything looked NORMAL! The scan seemed to perk Gwendoline up (she did not like it) and she began acting more alert and like herself. With that, we were discharged.
After a very long, trying, painful day, we are back home relaxing with popsicles, cartoons, and steroid ointment. It's hard not to feel like a failure as a mother when your child is covered in spider bites, may or may not have a stomach bug, and gets a head injury requiring a CT scan all in one day. But I'm working on it.
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| Just what the doctor ordered! |